Tag Archives: narcissism

“Everyone has problems” = shitty, unsolicited advice

A friend of mine in the US shared the meme above on her Facebook feed and it truly resonated with me.  Like me, she is alone and completely marginalised.  She lives with her parents and is terrified of what will … Continue reading

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Fake friends, fake people and saviors and why I’m tired of being conned by them

Fake friends are worse than enemies, because at least you can count on your enemies to hate you and they never tried to earn, the n betray your trust. I’m very angry right now, mostly angry at myself for allowing … Continue reading

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I made a huge mistake in moving close to my mother (parental favoritism)

When I returned to the UK last November, I was sure that I’d be able to put the past behind me to some extent, in relation to my upbringing.  I thought that I’d finally be able to have a semi-decent … Continue reading

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Two steps forward, ten steps back (this is an awful decade)

I do not buy into the lie that we’ve advanced as a species.  If anything, I feel the last 15 years have been a case of taking two steps forward to take ten steps back.  We are supposedly more accepting … Continue reading

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To survive in this world in 2018….

To survive in this cutthroat, competitive, overly individualistic world you need to have a thick skin, especially if you’re radically different from the norm.  If you’re different, you have to become almost immune to the criticisms and rejections from others … Continue reading

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